Here are some significant suggestions to avoid immature dating habits destined to fail.
1. Using flirting techniques: Dating is about getting to know an authentic person as a potential partner. Flirting may temporarily attract someone’s interest but if that’s not part of your personality, you’ve wasted your time and your date’s time. Be yourself!
2. Dating rules and games: Waiting a number of days before calling or asking for another date, turning down dates to appear more popular, having sex on the third date or following other absurd rules smacks of immaturity and insecurity. Life doesn’t have a rule book, neither should successful dating.
3. Expecting your partner to change your life, help you, “fix” you, be the hero in your life. No one can do that for you but you. Looking for a knight in white armor is an unrealistic expectation doomed to failure and disappointment.
Rosalind Sedacca is a Dating & Relationship Mentor, co-author of 99 Things Women Wish They Knew Before Dating After 40, 50 & Yes, 60! and co-creator of the DatingRescue eCourse for women and Mastering the Challenges of Dating: A Success Formula for Men. Learn more at: www.womendatingafter40.com, http://www.womendatingrescue.com and www.mensdatingformula.com